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Kids Suffering
From Spring Fever?
Ways to embrace the changing season with your family.
by Bette Holtzman
PARENTGUIDE NEWS April
2008
As the days grow longer, the weather
gets warmer. While the sun lingers a bit more each day, have you noticed
your children becoming listless and excited at the same time? They’ve
probably caught spring fever— and the feeling is contagious.
The best treatment for spring fever is to ease into the season by maintaining
your family’s routines as much as possible. And, if your son gets
restless, let him “chill” by relaxing, reading a book, watching
a classic video or just daydreaming on the couch. If your daughter gets
antsy and tired of being cooped up, let her play outdoors, rain or shine.
You know that homework and chores still have to get done, and they will.
Keep reading for helpful tips that address some of the joys and challenges
affecting kids come springtime.
Spring brings so many changes, especially the weather. As it gets warmer,
kids of all ages want to be outside more often. But, cool mornings, warmer
afternoons and those April showers make dressing children a challenge.
Particularly on weekends, before a Saturday soccer game or a Sunday spent
at the park, it’s a good idea to dress children in layers—
and don’t forget the sunscreen. In fact, spring serves as a great
time to get children into the sunscreen habit. Try to make sun protection
fun. We used to do “the lotion motion” dance at our house,
putting on sunblock as we sang songs and did lots of shaking. Giving an
inexpensive pair of sunglasses to each child makes the kids feel cool
as they head outdoors.
Kids also love playing in the rain, as long as they are not too cold.
There are lots of whimsical raincoats, umbrellas and rain boots to purchase
that are stylish to wear and totally functional.
Everything seems to grow during springtime, including the kids. You’re
not imagining it; children really do have growth spurts in the spring.
This leads to the necessary, but decidedly not fun, chore of figuring
out what clothes still fit whom. Because most kids have little tolerance
for trying on clothes, the job of clothing matchmaker is best accomplished
by doling out small tasks and rewards. Say something like, “We’ll
go outside to play after you’ve tried on these two pairs of jeans.”
Be mindful that some children in your family may have started developing
a sense of style in the past year, or have definite clothing preferences.
Allow some flexibility to complement this developing sense of autonomy.
And ensure your children have a spring wardrobe that will endure through
the chilly days of spring and the first dog days of summer.
If you don’t have a growth chart in your home, consider posting
one. You can buy a fun chart or simply designate a spot on a wall where
your children can see the markings. Big kids love to see how big they
are, and little kids love to see how close to the big kids they are getting.
With greenery and bright colors popping up throughout local towns, spring
is also a great time to plant flowers with the kids. Whether you’re
filling a flowerpot in an apartment, planting a window box outside your
home or planning a sprawling garden where the kids will love to play in
the dirt, gardening offers children a chance to interact with nature and
an entertaining science lesson as they control the environment and see
how things grow. Remember, getting dirty is part of the experience.
What are you pedaling? Whether your child rides in a trailer attached
to an adult bike, has a tricycle, uses training wheels or maneuvers a
mountain bike, he or she is going to want to ride bikes as the weather
gets warmer. However, before you get out the bicycles, check the size
and condition of your child’s helmet. This is extremely important.
The helmet should not be too big or too small. It should cover the forehead,
and the straps should be fastened so that the helmet fits snugly. Helmets
should not have big dents or torn padding.
Parents who bike with their kids must also wear helmets— for safety
and to model cautious behavior. Once the helmets approved for safety,
check the family bicycles for size and fit. Put air in the tires and maybe
spruce up the bikes. A new bell or handlebar streamers add to the appeal
of bikes, as do playing cards clipped to the bike spokes, which make noise
as the tires spin. How about a family bike ride this weekend?
If it’s spring, the time is right for garage sales. Because spring
cleaning goes hand-in-hand with the season, a garage sale with merchandise
cleared from the house makes cleaning a special seasonal affair for the
family. Whereas children don’t typically like the cleaning aspect
of spring cleaning, they love garage sales.
Try giving the kids a table or blanket to sell their gently used toys
and books that they are willing to part with. Children are more inclined
to tidy their rooms and designate items for sale if they are allowed to
keep the money earned from their tables— or earn money for watching
a younger sibling during the garage sale. Kids can also organize a lemonade
or cookie stand at the garage sale. This enhances the festive atmosphere
of the occasion.
In addition, a group of neighbors may want to coordinate a block sale,
which usually increases the number of visitors. The downside to this is
that children will want to check out the neighbors’ stuff and use
their earnings to bring home as much “new” stuff as they got
rid of.
For families that live in apartments, garage sales may pose a challenge.
Check with the building manager about what type of sale your family may
host, or explore your online sale options, such as posting gently used
items on Craigslist or Ebay. Lastly, consider donating items to a local
shelter or charity.
Remember, spring fever is not an illness; it’s something to be embraced.
If you keep things structured, entertaining and developmentally appropriate,
then your children will move with the changing seasons and maintain responsibilities
at home, school and wherever else springtime pursuits take them.
Bette Holtzman, vice president of consumer and family
advocacy for The Goldberger Company, received her bachelor’s degree
in sociology and her master’s degree in social work. Holtzman’s
career quickly focused on children and families, using her professional
skills to help parents and children feel good about themselves and develop
healthy relationships. Acting as a liaison between consumers and The Goldberger
Company, Holtzman provides both a child and family-friendly perspective
when product decisions are made. |